I have a 3yr old and an 8 month old, and just started a new job in October. I am still trying to learn the ropes at work, and I have tons of mom guilt that I can't be home with my boys full or part time. My 3yo is a mess when I pick him up from school, and needs to be snuggled most of the night until it's time for bed. I feel like with that, plus getting dinner ready etc, I don't spend much time with the baby. My husband doesnt get home until around bath time, so most of the evening is on me. Most nights, I go to bed cranky, frustrated, and filled with self doubt.
I want to ask my boss if I can work from home 2x/week but don't know if it's too soon (the others in my department work from home 1-2x/wk).
Any advice on that and/or how to deal with evenings? Or any words of wisdom? Will I always have mom guilt of some kind?